Kelly Baker Barnes-love your kids more than yourself....

 Please view this video John Bakers triplets 15th birthday today 15 yrs old March 30th 2014 that John Baker made for his children Samantha, Evan and Ethan.

 

Today is the day the Baker triplets graced this earth.......

An Update-As you can see above a picture has been removed by Kelly Baker Barnes the mother of John Bakers children so I added a new one that Johns niece shared with him. This picture was taken(2005) right before John was forced out of his kids lives by Kelly's lies. This is a typical tactic used by Kelly and other alienators to try to dilute the lies told to Samantha, Evan, Ethan and Luke about their father John. The more Kelly tries to hide these children from their father, the more they will seek him out. This is an update. On this day of March 30th, 2014 John's babies turned 15. I can see that Kelly is terrified of John's existence because she knows the day will come when these now 15 year old kids will start asking questions. Good...Their legal freedom to make choices on their own is only 3 years away and they WILL seek their father John out.
A message to Kelly-
I do hope that your soul is riddled with guilt over the hateful actions you have taken against a man-now my man John- that loved you so intensely that he went through all of the tears, fears and hospital visits with you so that you could carry his children inside your body. This same man gave you the home of your dreams, catered to you, and protected you.He loved you with every ounce of his soul. Nathan will confirm this. 
You were so envied by everyone because John gave you the lifestyle you demanded. He wanted you to be happy and no matter how hard he tried and worked-you demanded more of him. Everyone in Peachtree City to include your parents Jim and Becky(Magaw /Poppy) and your brother Brian and wife Suzie (especially Suzie)knew how much John worked to please you and keep you happy. Obviously happiness is not an emotion you know how to feel. Your precious triplets are half his and you methodically took his babies away from him through lies, deceit and greed.  Your brother Kevin, my abuser, has not one ounce of the caliber of a graceful, giving man that John is and I am so thankful that I have John in my life today.  You and Kathy B worked for a domestic violence in your brief business center-you are such  hypocrite and I have proof. 
You divorced John and I have dried his tears for years over the fact that you broke his heart with your infidelities and the methodical, hateful, controlling actions to take away his children from his life.I see you Kelly Gene Landers Baker Barnes. 
 John shared with me how you would "cower' in the courtroom almost to portray that John was abusive. and you were afraid of him. I know for fact that you have never had your nose broken, ribs broken, or scars on your body from John and you portrayed yourself as an abused victim. How dare you mock abused women.Your brother Kevin has inflicted more abuses on my body and soul that you will ever be able to absorb. Your neices and nephews watched him beat the crap out of me yet you used the courts to portray that John was abusive.? How much more pathetic and mean can you get? Ask your brother Kevin about the porn , the swingers sites and the abuses he and his second wife Melody inflicted on our children. Do you really think the kids will stay quiet? In the most extreme cases, kids talk and remember their mom and dad. They love both of their parents so at what point are you going to love your kids more than you hate a guy that treasured you loved you and wanted to give you everything you demanded to make you happy? You live a pathetic lie Kelly and as an abused woman by the hands of your brother Kevin-I will not stay silent nor support lies ensued by a woman(you) who will use any ploy in the courts to gain money. How dare you say that John was abusive to you. You are evil and nauseating. I am thankful that John loves me the way he tried to love you but you my sister don't know how to love or feel love. Your parents have raised two very mean, selfish, liars-you and my abuser Kevin. Jim and Becky are also responsible for their grand children's heartaches because they feed you and your brother Kevin's lies. I remember the day that your brother Kevin admitted and wrote(I have a copy of the letter as do you and your parents) that he was "a mean, mean man"  Your father-the great Christian he claims to be-turned his back on your brother when Kevin reached out to him. Only when your brother started to lie again, did you dad embrace him. God forbid if you make the 4-time dismissed elder for his anger(Jim Landers) hold him accountable.. John has shared stories with me on how you, Kelly said that you never felt loved by your father. That you actually would hurt yourself with a tennis racquet to get Daddy's(Jim's) attention. The ONLY time he paid attention to you is when it made him look good. See the pattern here my ex-sister-in-law? You have become the striking image of "Daddy Jim"....excuse me-Poppy. A name he shoved down everyone's throat to include my children. If my children ever slipped and called him Papa your father Jim would not hesitate to correct them harshly.  Meanness runs in your family and I have never liked your dad. He is mean like you and Kevin are. You did learn from the master of mean. 
I feel sorry for you and I truly feel sorry for the children you and my sweet John worked so hard to have in your lives. I was so happy for you and John but I had no idea how mean you really were. 
God will hold you accountable for your hateful ways and so will Nate, Luke, Sam, Evan and Ethan. Because we are connected through our children, in a wonderful way, our children will always have a bond so stories, memories and truths will be told. I know that you and my abuser Kevin fear that more than anything else. Tell the truth now to your kids or your pain will be alot greater. As far as I am concerned-I will be a constant voice for John and all 9 of our children.
I pray everyday that you and Kevin ask for repentance for the harm you have inflicted on our 9 children.

This is a picture of the Baker triplets and their older brother Luke. Hayden Luke was born on September 26 and I will post about his birth in September.

Samantha Grace, Ethan Neill, and Evan Samuel were born on this day March 30, 1999. Sami was born at 8:58pm, Evan at 9:00pm and Ethan at 9:02 pm. What a wonderful miracle that happened on this day.

Each time this year, John tells me about their last few days in their moms womb and then details of their birth and each birthday that he was able to spend with his children. It is a very sad time for him to reminisce. It is extremely unfair that these beautiful kids have been excluded from their father because of lies told by his ex-wife Kelly. It remains a bitter, hateful divorce and I will say this; For a mother to tell her children-these children- that their father does not care about them, does not want them, and that they are not allowed to speak to him, or see him...these lies are just hateful and mean. For her to say that John is a selfish, horrible man that is a criminal and a evil person is wrong. Any of you that know John Baker, know that he was the primary caretaker of these kids. John was there when the kids woke up and he was the one to put them to bed. John was the one to "soothe" Kelly's temperament with the children and others. There are many in Peachtree City that tell stories of what a great dad he is and they were not surprised that Kelly told all these lies about him in an attempt to gain credibility for being greedy and mean. Kelly only cares about one thing-money. She has even sacrificed her own children's love of their father to gain as much money as she can for herself. There are no secrets here. Kelly and John downsized their lifestyle and both were exploring the filing of bankruptcy when Kelly filed for divorce and requested Alimony and child support that totaled $10,000-a-month. Alimony was quickly dismissed per revelations of her out of town "girl trip" behavior...a few of you "girls" in PTC can attest. I don't understand how a mother will take time to call here to speak with a man she says she hates, but will not allow her children to speak with their father. John and I have offered Kelly settlement on the child support of $40,000 - $60,000 but she continues to vow that she will not "allow" John to ever have contact with his children. She tried to do the same with their oldest, but in time, his age allowed him to by-pass his mother objections and he has visited us and continues to do very well. Lies in the court were told and for any of you that desire to pull the public record of this messy divorce, you will find that the judge desired to "make an example" out of John and put a 7% interest that accures daily on his child support... the amount with the court now stands around the $3million dollar range...you that know him and saw his devotion to his children and their mother probably find this unbelievable...in the end, you have a father that will sit in jail until his Child Support is satisfied OR Kelly agrees to a settlement which she claims she will not do. All in an effort to have the children "prefer" mom over dad? I can honestly say I have NEVER known of John speaking wrong of Kelly to their children nor to my children which he supports financially and emotionally. Whew! I do not want to depress my readers, just want to clarify (we welcome any legal advice).

As crazy as I may sound, there are Peachtree City police reports filed by Kelly accusing John of terrorist threats to harm her and abduct the children...these too are lies HOWEVER she does have the phone records on her side. John has called Kelly at home, cell and work in an effort to speak with their children. Kelly refuses per "therapists advice" and then files report that the call was one of harassment- trust me, each complaint has to be addressed individually and all the false accusations just stack up. If you confront Kelly on this and she denies, let me know and I will send you one of the reports. A silent "thank you" for the one that supplied the copy of filed reports.

It is my understanding that Kelly's current husband, Craig, is kind to all of the Baker children and chooses not to be a part of his wife's "anti-John" efforts.

If any of you have pictures from the past or present of these kids, please email them to me or John. Their mother, Kelly does not want John to have any physical reminder of the Baker kids as she also is trying to wipe John (their daddy) out of their memories. I cannot sit back anymore and watch this hatred spewed by Kelly on John or the kids. John loves his children as do I and the hatred needs to stop. It is not fair to these children nor to their father to try to make sense of all the lies and hate spewed by ones that know the truth and keep trying to hide it. So, here is my email tammany.girl@gmail.com. John's is nalsee_dad@yahoo.com. Our phone number is 484-885-2443. This is a vonage number and there is no charge.

For today, my heart aches for John. I have blogged about my children but this is John's day to mourn over the fact that he cannot hug his babies and wish them a happy 12th birthday. I love John and this blog is a way for me to reach out and tell his story for him and for his children.

"Until we meet again, may God hold you in the hollow of His hands"