Col Kevin P Landers Melody Landers-Cyberbully

My ex-husbands wife Melody Landers has been harassing John and I for years now. I was made aware of lies she quietly told family, neighbors, friends and even lied to our children about me and John. These lies were brought to my attention as family members started to realize she was unstable and from my children who decided they wanted to live with me. My children-now young adults- have told me many accounts of Melody's verbal rages behind closed doors and all the lies she tried to tell them about me and John. The children never believed her which infuriates her even more.
I really could not do anything about what Melody said behind my back quietly, but I am ready to put a stop to her public defamation of me, John, and now the children that want nothing to do with her.

One of her first public attacks was on John's 20th Highschool class reunion website, Facebook page, and University website page in 2010. Melody had created a fake account posing as John and wrote some pretty degrading, horrific lies. John's friends from high-school and college knew it was not John and collectively reported Melody and she was removed immediately from those sites.
Another public attack was on my Mountain Home High school alumni page. She created a fake account with my maiden name(Cathie Seebauer) and once again wrote-posing as me-horrific lies. My friends knew it was not me and Melody was again removed. John and I have screen shots, written letters by friends and family that would be willing to testify and documented proof that it was indeed Melody that was the imposter.

Another public attack was a posting in 2012 as herself here in San Miguel on an online website called Civil San Miguel de Allende, MX. This website allows expats and locals to post questions about our surrounding city. One can find and post rental information, classifieds, and questions about San Miguel. Melody took it upon herself to create a post that degraded John, myself and our daughter "A" who still lives here. People that I had never met here in San Miguel contacted me and asked me if I knew who this Melody Landers was. I asked them-
"Oh no-what has she done now?" 
They told me that they had her post removed because they knew she was spreading horrible lies about me and our minor daughter at that time. I had no idea why Melody would even care to take the time to create a post on a site that doesn't pertain to her at all. I believe her intention was to try to ruin our outstanding reputation as good citizens in this city-yet it back fired on her because now San Miguel, which happens to be a close-knit community-is well aware of Melody Landers hateful actions and it is not tolerated nor accepted in this peaceful, loving community.

Another recent tactic Melody did was to post on John's son Nate's Georgia Southern website. Nate is a football coach at GA Southern and once again, Melody used her own name and posted horrible, slanderous lies about John. John and Nathan are very close and talk everyday. I assume Melody's intention was to try to make John appear in a bad light to Nathan's friends and colleagues. John along with his family and friends follow GA Southern website and John was getting bombarded with messages and phone calls asking John-"What the heck is wrong with this lady?"
Good question and one that will appear more clear as you continue to read below.

Melody has posed as our children. She had hidden keyloggers on the children's computers, phones, x-boxs ect. Keyloggers are good tools to have as long as you don't use them to hack into others social accounts. Melody has a pattern of doing this to ALL 4 of my children and her daughter. She gave her daughter a computer as a "college present" and without "Kay's" knowledge, she put a hidden keylogger on that computer. "Kay" did discover it when Melody also started posing as her daughter. Pretty weird lady. Melody also bought a computer for our daughter "A" in 2012 and "A" was smart enough to ask a computer tech to check to see if there was a hidden keylogger on her computer. There was. Why is Melody so insecure that she has to hack into other peoples personal lives or maybe she is what she claims I am-
A Stalker. 
The most current has been my youngest son. When "J" chose to leave his father and Melody to live with his sister, he did not realize that Melody was hacking into his Yahoo, Gmail, Hotmail, Facebook, Cell Phone and X-box because when "J" tried to log into his media sites after he left, all the passwords and security questions had been changed. All this time-Melody was posing as Justin on his Facebook-something I already knew but my "J" did not. I shared with "J" the copies of private messages from "his" Facebook these last 10 years. He said-"Mom-I never wrote those things."  "J" had to create a new Facebook because he could not get into his old one. The old Facebook still exists so if you receive messages from this Facebook link Justins Hacked Facebook  let me stress it is not Justin-It's Melody Landers. 

An update on my son's "J) old Facebook ubove. "J" reported to Facebook that his step-mother hacked into it so Facebook immediately removed it. "J" has also reported his hacked e-mail accounts and has informed all of his contacts from these accounts that if they receive any correspondents from the email accounts he listed-to delete them. "J" is currently creating new accounts and we are helping him secure these accounts so that Melody will have no access to his private life any longer.

So here is a severe warning to anyone that has communicated with "J" on his media sites up until the time he left his fathers home in Jan. 2015-Some communications may have been Melody and anything that you thought was private-was seen by Melody.  If anyone out there has visited Melody and Kevin's home and used their computers or cell phones-Melody has all your passwords and don't be naive to think she won't hack into your personal accounts. Melody's actions are an Invasion of Privacy or Intrusion of Solitude and Seclusion. This can constitute time and/or a hefty fine if pursued in court.

There are so many more examples but below are the most recent and it is time that I put a stop to Melody's hateful antics I do believe Melody is very angry and concerned that now 5 out of 6 children that were under her care chose to leave her and Kevin. The child Melody is most frustrated about is my youngest son "J." She truly thought that her lies to him about me would stick after 10 years but once "J" was free to talk to me he told me and his siblings-"I never forgot all the happy moments and that's what helped me survive all these years." Justin never hated us. He had to survive until legally he could walk away from his fathers home-and he did just that in January.

Melody knows that we are learning what really happened these last 10 years to him and she is afraid that she will be exposed. Well-I am ready to do just that if she does not stop texting hateful words and threats to my children like-"you are going to court and then jail." Melody is exhibiting behavior of a first class bully. If she does not stop posting defaming, slanderous things about me, John and now the kids I will continue to expose her hateful rants. A woman who has publicly posted for years how much she "loves her bonus kiddos" is now posting horrible things about them. What kind of mother figure does that? Heck-what kind of human being does that to kids?

I have for the most part tried to ignore Melody's harassment and bullying but in all honesty there were times I got caught up in "defending myself" and "firing back". As much as I try to ignore her, it becomes a different playing field when she is now going after my children. Melody being married to a high ranked-high profiled Army officer should impress her enough to act as a spouse of a US Military Colonel. However, Melody's behavior exposes her ignorance. She does not seem to understand that her behavior does affect Kevin and his role as an officer. When soldiers climb the ranks, the military world gets smaller and smaller which means the spot-light gets a lot bigger and brighter. Of course with Col Landers job as commander of The Corp of Engineers, he is also in a significant leadership position. It appears that Melody does not understand nor care that her public defamations and lies against Col Landers children and myself is a direct reflection of her character and her role as a spouse/officers wife. In lou of the fact that Col Landers is married to Melody-Her public display and behavior is a reflection of his personal life. 
With the current events of "J" leaving their home & care, FOR GOOD REASON, Melody and Col Landers emotional cruelty to these chilren comes to light once again...a reflection of the turmoil that exist in the relationship of Col & M. Morrison-Wilson-Landers.. 

Melody, as Col Landers wife, should be presenting herself with grace, dignity, professionalism, class and integrity. She is doing none of these as you will see in the screen shots below. I am not sure if Kevin wants to pursue the rank of General like my brother-in-law Jeff has , but if he does-he needs to have a long talk with his wife Melody. My sister Debbie, General Milhorns wife, is the epitome of not only an excellent wife, but a shining example of a outstanding officers wife. Debbie sets the bar very high. One that Melody needs to try to reach if she truly wants to support her husband Col Landers more than harass me, John and our children.
My brother-in-law's Frocking Ceremony to Brigade General

So below are the most recent screen shots of "postings" by Melody. My friends and family have brought these postings to my attention and the one question is always-"Why is she so hateful?"
Melody is infamous for posting hateful lies and words on social media sites and then deletes them.
I learned many years ago to screen shot and document everything because Melody claims I harass and cyber-bully her. She also states that I have made YouTube videos stating that I will kill Kyle(Melody's son). It's interesting that those videos were never produced in the courts. Why?-Because there are no videos. I have NEVER threatened anyone with bodily harm. Melody also insists that I send emails to friends, families and Col Landers work. I have not and I am sure that if emails have been sent-they can be tracked by IP addresses and I'm confident that it will be traced back to one person-Melody Morrison Wilson Landers. Melody also states on her Pinterest page called Cyberbullying- Melody's Pinterest Page Cyberbullying-that I have a criminal background. Once again, another significant lie or "Perjury". I have never committed of a crime and have a clean slate with law enforcement. I just got my Passport renewed because I have planned trips in the future to travel to the states to visit with my children (to include Kayla-Melody's daughter), my in-laws, Johns son and of course our families. So, after reading the horrible things and lies Melody writes and speaks, you will conclude that Melody is the bully and if she does not stop-we will be forced to continue to make this public and if she still doesn't stop with my asking-we will be willing to stop her legally. Something I'm sure Col Kevin P Landers Sr. does not want, need, nor has time for.

                                                                                                                                 

Here is the original picture of me taken off of my older daughters Facebook. This picture was taken while cooking Christmas dinner with my daughters last year. Myself, and my younger daughter "A" were cooking in my kitchen and Skyped with my older daughter in Montana so we could all feel like we were cooking together. Below this picture is the same cropped picture that Melody stole off of my daughters Facebook and wrote as you can see-
"always calling someone else fat. Why don't you look in the mirror lady. looks like you might have couple of chins going on there. May want to start running again...quit bullying the retards.
Let me stress there is no documentation that I have ever called anyone a retard because I never have. She also states that I called my 2 son's girlfriends fat. Once again-these two girls know that I have not. As far as "bothering" her. I have not had contact nor desire to in years-another lie. As far as the Geneva Convention?-it is obvious that Melody has no idea what this agreement serves.

In this screenshot above, Melody claims that I taught my son how to surf porn(on the far left) because I talked about porn all the time. Lets keep in mind that I had not been in my son's life for 10 years so this is a bold face lie. I have written in my blog that Col Landers had a porn addiction in our marriage(something the children remember) but according to my son "J"-he said he was forbidden to read my blog so he never did. So, if Melody lies about sick stuff like this (especially publicly embarrassing our son) one can only assume she lies about everything.

The next picture below (to the far left) Melody pins a picture that states I'm a whore and that I don't even go to church. Now she doesn't mention my name, but how many people do you know that are in a loving relationship with their EX-brother-in-law? What mature, reasonable woman-especially a Colonel's wife-thinks she is displaying about her character when she goes around calling women whores? That's a term abusers use to degrade their victims.

This picture below is also from Melody's Pinterest account. She changed her name to n, but if you copy the link, it goes directly to her page.
In this picture below she refers to John as "skanky" and me as a "cheater"(far left). To the far right-she calls me a "self-absorbed whore". Once again-a term that mature, respectable, Christian women do not use. Melody also calls me a worthless piece of shit(far left) WOW! Terminology she recently called Justin after he got home from boot-camp. Yet, she says that I call others horrible names?

In this screen-shot below, 
 Melody insults her step-children(my children) by stating that they are just skating by (Far-Left). Quite the contrary. After the children chose to leave their fathers home-they excelled at a very rapid rate.
Something that my youngest son(who just left his father) is doing as well. Then to the far right-Melody writes-"thought they(Col Landers kids) could "spunge" off us forever" Melody is referring to her precious bonus-children. This doesn't appear to be a loving, supportive step-mother. It appears to be an angry, immature, unstable woman. It is understandable why my children couldn't wait to leave their fathers home because if she post this on a social media sites-it confirms to me that when my children tell me-"Mom-she is really mean behind closed doors." I believe them.

In this picture below, Melody writes(far left)-
"4 U Erin. He doesn't want your skanky ass and you only wish you were me" 
Erin is short for Catherine and once again Melody calls me a skanky whore. A word not becoming of an officers wife let alone a woman of class. The "he" she is referring to is Kevin. I think it is obvious that Col Landers and I both decided that we did not want each other anymore.

In this last pic- in the center- Melody writes-
"haters gonna hate bitch please you got nothing to be hated on Nobody cares about a home-wrecking whore that is bi-polar white trash"
Melody claims to be an upstanding Christian woman but I have never heard a Christian woman talk, write or act the way Melody does. Her public words of loving her children to include her bonus appear to be only for show because as you can see in some of her above posts-she says mean things about the kids. Not only is she posting mean things, now she is texting mean things and after 10 years of this-I think Col Landers, myself and our 4 children would agree that it's time that Melody stops with all this slander, defamation and YES-stalking.

Let me stress as I have in prior blogs-I will stop posting in this blog if Melody and Col Landers stop the hate & lies. I am positive that Col Landers is unaware of some of the things that Melody post. I am once again bringing awareness so that Col Landers understands that what Melody tells him and what is reality are very different. 
Society calls that a lie.

I still do not understand why Melody won't stop. My friends and family have brought to my attention many times Melody's hateful rants. She has been reported by me, my family, my friends, the children and even people I don't know. She has gotten her hands slapped a few times by these public media sites, yet she lets time pass and then she starts up again. It is obvious that she has a lot of anger, rage, and instabilities inside of her.  
To this-I don't know why nor do I care but what I do care about is that she stops. There is nothing gained from Melody's hatred and if she truly supports and loves her husband- Col Landers-Melody will consider what is in his best interest. Something she may prove to be incapable of doing.