Col Kevin P Landers Sr. absence as a father continues

In 2011, I started writing this blog. It had been six (6) years since I had filed for divorce from US Army Col. Kevin P. Landers Sr. Numerous years of staying silent came to an end.  Per an extraordinary mentor and the advice of others that knew my “life”  I embraced their direction that I write my story for the public to read.  I had concluded that it was in my best interest and my 4 children’s best interest to share my story. This Blog became my “answer” to  those whom were part of my circle when I was married to Kevin. My ex was spewing lies about me and people were wanting an account from me concerning the false accusations Kevin was directing at me. Horrific lies told to my family, my friends and most importantly our children. I stayed quiet from 2005 until 2011 because I needed time to heal and gain confidence again. When I started to get bombarded with emails and phone calls from strangers and family members, I headed the advice given to me so that I could use my voice and stand up for myself against an abuser(s) and direct people to this Blog.

I chose NOT to write anonymously and to also name my abuser and his current wife Melody Morrison Wilson Landers. I made these decisions after much thought and consideration knowing that Kevin and Melody would more than likely take me to court...which they did in 2012. Because I reside in Mexico, Kevin and Melody thought that I would not be represented over 1,000 miles away in Colorado Springs, CO. Upon being served 48 hrs notice of the court date, I was able to have legal counsel AND use my voice via telephonic conference. While reading the allegations against me that both Kevin and Melody filed UNDER OATH, I was once again appalled at the lies they had written. One in particular is that Kevin claimed that he filed for divorce and won sole custody of our 4 children. After 18 years of his physical, sexual and verbal abuses, I am the one who filed for divorce in April 2005 and we had joint custody at that time. Both he and Melody also swore to the El Paso county court that I had threatened to kill them, burn down their home and kill their late son Kyle Ray Wilson. It amazes me how Kevin and Melody swore under oath yet claim to be God fearing Christians. It is unethical, it is sociopath, it is in violation of the US Army Code and it is against the law.

You can read in more detail what transpired during the court hearing in El Paso County Colorado by clicking on the link:

http://catherinelanders2010-recreatingmyself.blogspot.mx/2012/03/abusers-censorship-request-denied-by.html

Kevin requested that the judge order me to take down my blog and Judge Curtis denied his request. As per his abusive character, he was not happy about her judgement but he and Melody started telling people that they have a permanent restraining order and that I am a felon running from the law and hiding in Mexico. Their lies escalated to such an insane, extreme level and they started posting publicly  that they went to the Supreme Court and I was ordered to remove all my social media sites. I have a screenshot of a transcribed FALSE court hearing that never took place. An acquaintance that reads Melody’s private blogs sent me the fake court proceeding order. Here is a link to Melody’s 2 different blogs that consist of very slanderous allegations against me and John and our children.
http://thelanderssaga.blogspot.com/
http://kevinmelody.blogspot.com/ 

Col. Kevin P. Landers Sr. and Melody Morrison Wilson Landers have stated and posted publicly that I have warrants out for my arrest in both Mexico and the United States. And go on to claim that if and/or when I cross the border, I will be arrested on the spot. As most all of you know from my prior blog entry, I ATTENDED-in-person my son’s wedding in November 2015 and then traveled throughout the United States before arriving to my home in Mexico. I also renewed my Passport while in the USA - without any problem.  I am reiterating this because it is important to see the pattern of how Kevin and Melody live and breathe lies and have been doing so for 11 years now and do not show any sign that they will repent nor stop all this slander and defamation of me, John, our children and our families.

On the eve of our son’s wedding, US Army Col. Kevin Paul Landers, Sr. made false allegations to a local police officer concerning a false document Kevin had produced. The officer contacted me and advised that I was “prohibited” from attending our son’s wedding. I had to involve other judicial persons in New Jersey and Kevin was asked to leave immediately...he left. One would think that the Colonel would learn his lesson and stop all his lies and hatred towards me and our 4 children, but he has not.

Our 4 children want to have a relationship with their Mom and Dad. However, Kevin continues to make it very clear that if our children have a relationship with me, he will ban them from his life; He did so again recently with our 24 year old daughter.

How can any logical thinking human being admire or even respect a man, a soldier, an Army officer that demands his children have nothing to do with their mother and IF our son’s/daughter’s acknowledge their mom, they will be disowned by their father!

I know and mentor to many parents (dad’s included) that battle the courts and with their ex’s everyday in an effort to fight to be included in their child’s life. My John has battled with his ex Kelly for years in efforts to hold his children again. He even offered her sizable settlements and she refused it because she does not want John to be the wonderful father he is to his own children. Children that are now also becoming young adults that will eventually seek John out for answers as my children have done with me. What is going to be devastating to the Baker children is that they were lied to by their mother Kelly about why John is not in their life as of today. John prays about seeing his children everyday because he is a loving father.

Kevin has an unequivocal choice to have a relationship with our children and HE chooses not to be in their life. The children can confirm, that I have NEVER requested that they alienate their dad...I think it would be best for them to have a relationship with their father. Over the years these children have longed to have a relationship with their dad yet he continues to play the victim and disregards them because they want a relationship with both of us.

Kevin hates me more than he loves our children and that is so heart wrenching not only to me...but to 4 innocent children that don’t deserve all the anger he continues to dish out.

In the past, I tried to communicate with Kevin in reference to our children and he refuses to discuss their well being with me. We brought these 4 beautiful souls into this world and whether we dislike each other or not, we have a responsibility to support, love and embrace our children regardless of the past or our divorce. Kevin has a lot of excuses as to why he chose to shun our children but there is not one reasonable excuse to shut out any of the children involved.

Melody ONLY claims love for her late son Kyle Ray. She refuses to acknowledge her daughter.

Our children are not playing cards that we disregard when we don’t like what has been dealt to us. They are human beings that one day become adults and parents as well and because of this, it is our job as loving parents to try to show by example of how responsible, loving adults act and thus far Kevin and Melody display not only hateful actions but also damaging results. We adults brought children into this world and it will forever be our responsibility to ensure that our children are safe, happy, thriving and feel loved by us. Five children don't feel loved by Kevin nor Melody and that is one child too many. To all the readers that interact with Melody and Kevin on a daily basis or have been to their home, is it not odd that there is not one picture or verbal acknowledgment that Kevin has two daughters and two sons. There are only shrines of Kyle Ray...a sweet soul that couldn't speak but he had cognitive thinking. I am sure if he could have spoken, he would have a lot to say about the way his mother Melody and step-father Kevin treat his sister and step-siblings.

So, with permission from my oldest daughter, I must once again expose how truly hateful

Col. Kevin Paul Landers Sr. is towards his children. Below is a text message that our daughter sent to her dad. She is applying for student loans and is required to provide a parent’s home address. That is all she asked. She didn't ask for money...just permission to use an address.

Now let me stress something here, when our daughter was sent away several times by her father in 2008/09 he didn’t pay any child support nor did he even take time to visit her while she was thrown away in a federally funded program for low income households (he was a Lt. Col. in ‘08 ‘09). He just hid her away from me and her siblings for years and did nothing to support nor help her. When I found her, John and I took care of her until she got on her feet. Kevin repeated this same behavior with our 3 other children and hardly paid a dime to help them and it's not because he doesn’t have the money. An Army Colonel averages about over $7,000.00  a month with sizable annual raises:

https://www.military-ranks.org/army/colonel-pay  

The little amount of money he did give was ONLY when the children agreed to not have a relationship with me otherwise he shunned our kids out of his life. Kevin and Melody are so engulfed in their own greed and hatred for me that they punish these children in their process to hide all of their lies. I truly pray everyday that all their hatred would stop but I don't see that coming anytime soon and this is why I will continue to write in my blog. I had a 62 year old survivor tell me some very unfortunate, but honest advice. She said, “The day my abuser stopped his hatred was the day they buried him.”

I fear that with Kevin’s track record he will die a mean and dishonorable son; husband; and father.

“A man's success is measured by what his wife and children say about him. Money and accomplishments mean nothing if you let your home fail.”

I will end this entry with one last thought and advice to my ex and his wife.

If they do not stop their continual mean and abusive behavior towards myself and our shared 5 children I am going to continue to use my voice to expose how truly mean they are. Our children should not feel the need to defend themselves against their parents. We as parents should be defending the children that did not ask for a life riddled with insanity and a divorce. I asked for the divorce because I fell out of love with their father. How dare Kevin fall out of love with his children...he is a very sad man that not only hates me...Kevin hates himself.

He is mean; He is wrong; and He is abusive.

US Army Colonel Kevin P. Landers may wear rank as an outstanding soldier and attend his local church, but what does he want his legacy to be with 4 children that will also remember who he was to them? If he says he doesn't really care what our children think and could care less if they love him or not. Then he doesn’t deserve to be a father to MY children because my children are awesome souls that are doing great things and deserve all the wonderful things life offers in spite of the years of hell they have been through.

Rest...Regroup...Return

Kevin and Melody’s behavior defined ~

DSM-IV Definition. Antisocial personality disorder is characterized by a lack of regard for the moral or legal standards in the local culture. There is a marked inability to get along with others or abide by societal rules. Individuals with this disorder are sometimes called psychopaths or sociopaths.

I have also included screen shots per Melody’s Pinterest and Facebook accounts

Melody is an evil human being.

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This is a post per Melody Landers Facebook stating that she raised my 4 children. That is a bold faced lie. My oldest son left within 3 weeks of living with his father and Melody, my two daughters were thrown away from different homes because their father didn't want them and eventually they came and lived with John and I. My youngest son was the ONLY child that was raised by Melody and his father and sadly he is the most emotionally damaged as of today. That says a lot about what kind of life he had in his father's home for 10 years.

This is a post on Melody's Pinterest.
Melody's current Pinterest account
A post that Melody will delete as soon as she reads this blog. Melody professes that her and Kevin Sr. don't have any daughters and that her nieces are "the daughters they don't have" but yet on her Facebook page dedicated to her late son Kyle she posts many pictures of "the daughters they never had" which are my and Kevin's daughters.
Kyle Rays Legacy of Love Facebook page
Do you know how horrible that makes Melody's daughter and my daughters feel? Not sure if Melody's nieces nor sister would approve of these posts or behavior.
It shows what kind of person/mother figure Melody truly is-evil at her beautiful nieces expense.

Our Truths Triumphs their Lies...

To all my dedicated readers and followers-Thank you for your loyalty. I have been asked when I will be writing my next entry. Here is a brief update.
I have been in the process of writing about my journey back to the United States and my time spent with my 4 beautiful children, family and friends. I have much to share with you.

A short note-my son's wedding was absolutely breathtaking and wonderful.  I could not ask for a better son and my daughter-in-law is one of the most beautiful woman I know.
I am thankful to be welcomed into a new family.
I also spent much time with my children and we enjoyed our well deserved reunification after all these years. The laughter, the tears, many hugs and bonding were just a small, spectacular part of out time together.

Unfortunately, my ex husband tried to ruin our son's wedding with his consistent, hateful antics and lies. However, we refused to allow him nor his wife Melody to ruin very wonderful celebrations of love, life and rejoicing. Unconditional love and truth plays a very big role in all the wonderful events that are taking place in our lives today. It is time for their hatred to stop.
After 11 years of lies, abuse, defamation, manipulation of the others and the legal system-the final word will be ours.
More of my story soon....

Let it Begin and End With Me~

Col Kevin P Landers Melody Landers-Cyberbully Update

My ex-husbands wife Melody Landers has been harassing John and I for years now. I was made aware of lies she quietly told family, neighbors, friends and even lied to our children about me and John. These lies were brought to my attention as family members started to realize she was unstable and from my children who decided they wanted to live with me. My children-now young adults- have told me many accounts of Melody's verbal rages behind closed doors and all the lies she tried to tell them about me and John. The children never believed her which infuriates her even more.
I really could not do anything about what Melody said behind my back quietly, but I am ready to put a stop to her public defamation of me, John, and now the children that want nothing to do with her.

One of her first public attacks was on John's 20th Highschool class reunion website, Facebook page, and University website page in 2010. Melody had created a fake account posing as John and wrote some pretty degrading, horrific lies. John's friends from high-school and college knew it was not John and collectively reported Melody and she was removed immediately from those sites.
Another public attack was on my Mountain Home High school alumni page. She created a fake account with my maiden name(Cathie Seebauer) and once again wrote-posing as me-horrific lies. My friends knew it was not me and Melody was again removed. John and I have screen shots, written letters by friends and family that would be willing to testify and documented proof that it was indeed Melody that was the imposter.

Another public attack was a posting in 2012 as herself here in San Miguel on an online website called Civil San Miguel de Allende, MX. This website allows expats and locals to post questions about our surrounding city. One can find and post rental information, classifieds, and questions about San Miguel. Melody took it upon herself to create a post that degraded John, myself and our daughter "A" who still lives here. People that I had never met here in San Miguel contacted me and asked me if I knew who this Melody Landers was. I asked them-
"Oh no-what has she done now?" 
They told me that they had her post removed because they knew she was spreading horrible lies about me and our minor daughter at that time. I had no idea why Melody would even care to take the time to create a post on a site that doesn't pertain to her at all. I believe her intention was to try to ruin our outstanding reputation as good citizens in this city-yet it back fired on her because now San Miguel, which happens to be a close-knit community-is well aware of Melody Landers hateful actions and it is not tolerated nor accepted in this peaceful, loving community.

Another recent tactic Melody did was to post on John's son Nate's Georgia Southern website. Nate is a football coach at GA Southern and once again, Melody used her own name and posted horrible, slanderous lies about John. John and Nathan are very close and talk everyday. I assume Melody's intention was to try to make John appear in a bad light to Nathan's friends and colleagues. John along with his family and friends follow GA Southern website and John was getting bombarded with messages and phone calls asking John-"What the heck is wrong with this lady?"
Good question and one that will appear more clear as you continue to read below.

Melody has posed as our children. She had hidden keyloggers on the children's computers, phones, x-boxs ect. Keyloggers are good tools to have as long as you don't use them to hack into others social accounts. Melody has a pattern of doing this to ALL 4 of my children and her daughter. She gave her daughter a computer as a "college present" and without "Kay's" knowledge, she put a hidden keylogger on that computer. "Kay" did discover it when Melody also started posing as her daughter. Pretty weird lady. Melody also bought a computer for our daughter "A" in 2012 and "A" was smart enough to ask a computer tech to check to see if there was a hidden keylogger on her computer. There was. Why is Melody so insecure that she has to hack into other peoples personal lives or maybe she is what she claims I am-
A Stalker. 
The most current has been my youngest son. When "J" chose to leave his father and Melody to live with his sister, he did not realize that Melody was hacking into his Yahoo, Gmail, Hotmail, Facebook, Cell Phone and X-box because when "J" tried to log into his media sites after he left, all the passwords and security questions had been changed. All this time-Melody was posing as Justin on his Facebook-something I already knew but my "J" did not. I shared with "J" the copies of private messages from "his" Facebook these last 10 years. He said-"Mom-I never wrote those things."  "J" had to create a new Facebook because he could not get into his old one. The old Facebook still exists so if you receive messages from this Facebook link Justins Hacked Facebook  let me stress it is not Justin-It's Melody Landers. 

An update on my son's "J) old Facebook ubove. "J" reported to Facebook that his step-mother hacked into it so Facebook immediately removed it. "J" has also reported his hacked e-mail accounts and has informed all of his contacts from these accounts that if they receive any correspondents from the email accounts he listed-to delete them. "J" is currently creating new accounts and we are helping him secure these accounts so that Melody will have no access to his private life any longer.

So here is a severe warning to anyone that has communicated with "J" on his media sites up until the time he left his fathers home in Jan. 2015-Some communications may have been Melody and anything that you thought was private-was seen by Melody.  If anyone out there has visited Melody and Kevin's home and used their computers or cell phones-Melody has all your passwords and don't be naive to think she won't hack into your personal accounts. Melody's actions are an Invasion of Privacy or Intrusion of Solitude and Seclusion. This can constitute time and/or a hefty fine if pursued in court.

There are so many more examples but below are the most recent and it is time that I put a stop to Melody's hateful antics I do believe Melody is very angry and concerned that now 5 out of 6 children that were under her care chose to leave her and Kevin. The child Melody is most frustrated about is my youngest son "J." She truly thought that her lies to him about me would stick after 10 years but once "J" was free to talk to me he told me and his siblings-"I never forgot all the happy moments and that's what helped me survive all these years." Justin never hated us. He had to survive until legally he could walk away from his fathers home-and he did just that in January.

Melody knows that we are learning what really happened these last 10 years to him and she is afraid that she will be exposed. Well-I am ready to do just that if she does not stop texting hateful words and threats to my children like-"you are going to court and then jail." Melody is exhibiting behavior of a first class bully. If she does not stop posting defaming, slanderous things about me, John and now the kids I will continue to expose her hateful rants. A woman who has publicly posted for years how much she "loves her bonus kiddos" is now posting horrible things about them. What kind of mother figure does that? Heck-what kind of human being does that to kids?

Melody methodically threw away my childrens books, pictures, memorabilia, toys, holiday decorations, stuffed animals or anything that reminded my children of their past yet she has a shrine of her late son Kyle. Kyle Ray who was a 19yr old boy that had severe disablities that prevented him from speaking or use of physical independence. Kyle's well being relied totally on Melody and he died at a very young age. Melody worships her late son but where are the pictures of her living daughter she carried for 9 months inside her? Where is Kayla's shrine? Why is Melody's daughter Kayla not treasured? Is it because she was not handicapped or is it because Kayla could use her voice. Is it because Kayla was taken away from Melody at a young age and Melody resents her own daughter? It's not Kayla's fault that her mother was unstable.
A very clear picture is evident here. Melody had 6 children(my 4 and her daughter and son) at one point under her care, 5 of those 6 chose to leave her and Kevin's home. Kyle did not have a choice or a voice but the 5 other children did. Melody continues to hide behind her late son's legacy yet she fails to tell the truth about what really happened behind closed doors to my children and her daughter. The kids are now talking because they are not the young children that can be silenced, controlled or bullied into lies to protect their father and now his second wife-Melody Morrison Wilson Landers. These 5 kids are now legal adults and they are sick of Melody's slander, hatred, bullying and threats of-
"I'm going to take you to court and you are going to jail."
How many more times is Melody going to use that "scare tactic?"
It's getting quite old and it's not working anymore.

I have for the most part tried to ignore Melody's harassment and bullying but in all honesty there were times I got caught up in "defending myself" and "firing back". As much as I try to ignore her, it becomes a different playing field when she is now going after my children. Melody being married to a high ranked-high profiled Army officer should impress her enough to act as a spouse of a US Military Colonel. However, Melody's behavior exposes her ignorance. She does not seem to understand that her behavior does affect Kevin and his role as an officer. When soldiers climb the ranks, the military world gets smaller and smaller which means the spot-light gets a lot bigger and brighter. Of course with Col Landers job as commander of The Corp of Engineers, he is also in a significant leadership position. It appears that Melody does not understand nor care that her public defamations and lies against Col Landers children and myself is a direct reflection of her character and her role as a spouse/officers wife. In lou of the fact that Col Landers is married to Melody-Her public display and behavior is a reflection of his personal life. 
With the current events of "J" leaving their home & care, FOR GOOD REASON, Melody and Col Landers emotional cruelty to these chilren comes to light once again...a reflection of the turmoil that exist in the relationship of Col & M. Morrison-Wilson-Landers.. 

Melody, as Col Landers wife, should be presenting herself with grace, dignity, professionalism, class and integrity. She is doing none of these as you will see in the screen shots below. I am not sure if Kevin wants to pursue the rank of General like my brother-in-law Jeff has , but if he does-he needs to have a long talk with his wife Melody. My sister Debbie, General Milhorns wife, is the epitome of not only an excellent wife, but a shining example of a outstanding officers wife. Debbie sets the bar very high. One that Melody needs to try to reach if she truly wants to support her husband Col Landers more than harass me, John and our children.
My brother-in-law's Frocking Ceremony to Brigade General

So below are the most recent screen shots of "postings" by Melody. My friends and family have brought these postings to my attention and the one question is always-"Why is she so hateful?"
Melody is infamous for posting hateful lies and words on social media sites and then deletes them.
I learned many years ago to screen shot and document everything because Melody claims I harass and cyber-bully her. She also states that I have made YouTube videos stating that I will kill Kyle(Melody's son). It's interesting that those videos were never produced in the courts. Why?-Because there are no videos. I have NEVER threatened anyone with bodily harm. Melody also insists that I send emails to friends, families and Col Landers work. I have not and I am sure that if emails have been sent-they can be tracked by IP addresses and I'm confident that it will be traced back to one person-Melody Morrison Wilson Landers. Melody also states on her Pinterest page called Cyberbullying- Melody's Pinterest Page Cyberbullying-that I have a criminal background. Once again, another significant lie or "Perjury". I have never committed of a crime and have a clean slate with law enforcement. I just got my Passport renewed because I have planned trips in the future to travel to the states to visit with my children (to include Kayla-Melody's daughter), my in-laws, Johns son and of course our families. So, after reading the horrible things and lies Melody writes and speaks, you will conclude that Melody is the bully and if she does not stop-we will be forced to continue to make this public and if she still doesn't stop with my asking-we will be willing to stop her legally. Something I'm sure Col Kevin P Landers Sr. does not want, need, nor has time for.

                                                                                                                                 

Here is the original picture of me taken off of my older daughters Facebook. This picture was taken while cooking Christmas dinner with my daughters last year. Myself, and my younger daughter "A" were cooking in my kitchen and Skyped with my older daughter in Montana so we could all feel like we were cooking together. Below this picture is the same cropped picture that Melody stole off of my daughters Facebook and wrote as you can see-
"always calling someone else fat. Why don't you look in the mirror lady. looks like you might have couple of chins going on there. May want to start running again...quit bullying the retards.
Let me stress there is no documentation that I have ever called anyone a retard because I never have. She also states that I called my 2 son's girlfriends fat. Once again-these two girls know that I have not. As far as "bothering" her. I have not had contact nor desire to in years-another lie. As far as the Geneva Convention?-it is obvious that Melody has no idea what this agreement serves.

In this screenshot above, Melody claims that I taught my son how to surf porn(on the far left) because I talked about porn all the time. Lets keep in mind that I had not been in my son's life for 10 years so this is a bold face lie. I have written in my blog that Col Landers had a porn addiction in our marriage(something the children remember) but according to my son "J"-he said he was forbidden to read my blog so he never did. So, if Melody lies about sick stuff like this (especially publicly embarrassing our son) one can only assume she lies about everything.

The next picture below (to the far left) Melody pins a picture that states I'm a whore and that I don't even go to church. Now she doesn't mention my name, but how many people do you know that are in a loving relationship with their EX-brother-in-law? What mature, reasonable woman-especially a Colonel's wife-thinks she is displaying about her character when she goes around calling women whores? That's a term abusers use to degrade their victims.

This picture below is also from Melody's Pinterest account. She changed her name to n, but if you copy the link, it goes directly to her page.
In this picture below she refers to John as "skanky" and me as a "cheater"(far left). To the far right-she calls me a "self-absorbed whore". Once again-a term that mature, respectable, Christian women do not use. Melody also calls me a worthless piece of shit(far left) WOW! Terminology she recently called Justin after he got home from boot-camp. Yet, she says that I call others horrible names?

In this screen-shot below, 
 Melody insults her step-children(my children) by stating that they are just skating by (Far-Left). Quite the contrary. After the children chose to leave their fathers home-they excelled at a very rapid rate.
Something that my youngest son(who just left his father) is doing as well. Then to the far right-Melody writes-"thought they(Col Landers kids) could "spunge" off us forever" Melody is referring to her precious bonus-children. This doesn't appear to be a loving, supportive step-mother. It appears to be an angry, immature, unstable woman. It is understandable why my children couldn't wait to leave their fathers home because if she post this on a social media sites-it confirms to me that when my children tell me-"Mom-she is really mean behind closed doors." I believe them.

In this picture below, Melody writes(far left)-
"4 U Erin. He doesn't want your skanky ass and you only wish you were me" 
Erin is short for Catherine and once again Melody calls me a skanky whore. A word not becoming of an officers wife let alone a woman of class. The "he" she is referring to is Kevin. I think it is obvious that Col Landers and I both decided that we did not want each other anymore.

In this last pic- in the center- Melody writes-
"haters gonna hate bitch please you got nothing to be hated on Nobody cares about a home-wrecking whore that is bi-polar white trash"
Melody claims to be an upstanding Christian woman but I have never heard a Christian woman talk, write or act the way Melody does. Her public words of loving her children to include her bonus appear to be only for show because as you can see in some of her above posts-she says mean things about the kids. Not only is she posting mean things, now she is texting mean things and after 10 years of this-I think Col Landers, myself and our 4 children would agree that it's time that Melody stops with all this slander, defamation and YES-stalking.

Let me stress as I have in prior blogs-I will stop posting in this blog if Melody and Col Landers stop the hate & lies. I am positive that Col Landers is unaware of some of the things that Melody post. I am once again bringing awareness so that Col Landers understands that what Melody tells him and what is reality are very different. 
Society calls that a lie.

I still do not understand why Melody won't stop. My friends and family have brought to my attention many times Melody's hateful rants. She has been reported by me, my family, my friends, the children and even people I don't know. She has gotten her hands slapped a few times by these public media sites, yet she lets time pass and then she starts up again. It is obvious that she has a lot of anger, rage, and instabilities inside of her.  
To this-I don't know why nor do I care but what I do care about is that she stops. There is nothing gained from Melody's hatred and if she truly supports and loves her husband- Col Landers-Melody will consider what is in his best interest. Something she may prove to be incapable of doing.

Col Kevin P Landers Melody Landers-Cyberbully

My ex-husbands wife Melody Landers has been harassing John and I for years now. I was made aware of lies she quietly told family, neighbors, friends and even lied to our children about me and John. These lies were brought to my attention as family members started to realize she was unstable and from my children who decided they wanted to live with me. My children-now young adults- have told me many accounts of Melody's verbal rages behind closed doors and all the lies she tried to tell them about me and John. The children never believed her which infuriates her even more.
I really could not do anything about what Melody said behind my back quietly, but I am ready to put a stop to her public defamation of me, John, and now the children that want nothing to do with her.

One of her first public attacks was on John's 20th Highschool class reunion website, Facebook page, and University website page in 2010. Melody had created a fake account posing as John and wrote some pretty degrading, horrific lies. John's friends from high-school and college knew it was not John and collectively reported Melody and she was removed immediately from those sites.
Another public attack was on my Mountain Home High school alumni page. She created a fake account with my maiden name(Cathie Seebauer) and once again wrote-posing as me-horrific lies. My friends knew it was not me and Melody was again removed. John and I have screen shots, written letters by friends and family that would be willing to testify and documented proof that it was indeed Melody that was the imposter.

Another public attack was a posting in 2012 as herself here in San Miguel on an online website called Civil San Miguel de Allende, MX. This website allows expats and locals to post questions about our surrounding city. One can find and post rental information, classifieds, and questions about San Miguel. Melody took it upon herself to create a post that degraded John, myself and our daughter "A" who still lives here. People that I had never met here in San Miguel contacted me and asked me if I knew who this Melody Landers was. I asked them-
"Oh no-what has she done now?" 
They told me that they had her post removed because they knew she was spreading horrible lies about me and our minor daughter at that time. I had no idea why Melody would even care to take the time to create a post on a site that doesn't pertain to her at all. I believe her intention was to try to ruin our outstanding reputation as good citizens in this city-yet it back fired on her because now San Miguel, which happens to be a close-knit community-is well aware of Melody Landers hateful actions and it is not tolerated nor accepted in this peaceful, loving community.

Another recent tactic Melody did was to post on John's son Nate's Georgia Southern website. Nate is a football coach at GA Southern and once again, Melody used her own name and posted horrible, slanderous lies about John. John and Nathan are very close and talk everyday. I assume Melody's intention was to try to make John appear in a bad light to Nathan's friends and colleagues. John along with his family and friends follow GA Southern website and John was getting bombarded with messages and phone calls asking John-"What the heck is wrong with this lady?"
Good question and one that will appear more clear as you continue to read below.

Melody has posed as our children. She had hidden keyloggers on the children's computers, phones, x-boxs ect. Keyloggers are good tools to have as long as you don't use them to hack into others social accounts. Melody has a pattern of doing this to ALL 4 of my children and her daughter. She gave her daughter a computer as a "college present" and without "Kay's" knowledge, she put a hidden keylogger on that computer. "Kay" did discover it when Melody also started posing as her daughter. Pretty weird lady. Melody also bought a computer for our daughter "A" in 2012 and "A" was smart enough to ask a computer tech to check to see if there was a hidden keylogger on her computer. There was. Why is Melody so insecure that she has to hack into other peoples personal lives or maybe she is what she claims I am-
A Stalker. 
The most current has been my youngest son. When "J" chose to leave his father and Melody to live with his sister, he did not realize that Melody was hacking into his Yahoo, Gmail, Hotmail, Facebook, Cell Phone and X-box because when "J" tried to log into his media sites after he left, all the passwords and security questions had been changed. All this time-Melody was posing as Justin on his Facebook-something I already knew but my "J" did not. I shared with "J" the copies of private messages from "his" Facebook these last 10 years. He said-"Mom-I never wrote those things."  "J" had to create a new Facebook because he could not get into his old one. The old Facebook still exists so if you receive messages from this Facebook link Justins Hacked Facebook  let me stress it is not Justin-It's Melody Landers. 

An update on my son's "J) old Facebook ubove. "J" reported to Facebook that his step-mother hacked into it so Facebook immediately removed it. "J" has also reported his hacked e-mail accounts and has informed all of his contacts from these accounts that if they receive any correspondents from the email accounts he listed-to delete them. "J" is currently creating new accounts and we are helping him secure these accounts so that Melody will have no access to his private life any longer.

So here is a severe warning to anyone that has communicated with "J" on his media sites up until the time he left his fathers home in Jan. 2015-Some communications may have been Melody and anything that you thought was private-was seen by Melody.  If anyone out there has visited Melody and Kevin's home and used their computers or cell phones-Melody has all your passwords and don't be naive to think she won't hack into your personal accounts. Melody's actions are an Invasion of Privacy or Intrusion of Solitude and Seclusion. This can constitute time and/or a hefty fine if pursued in court.

There are so many more examples but below are the most recent and it is time that I put a stop to Melody's hateful antics I do believe Melody is very angry and concerned that now 5 out of 6 children that were under her care chose to leave her and Kevin. The child Melody is most frustrated about is my youngest son "J." She truly thought that her lies to him about me would stick after 10 years but once "J" was free to talk to me he told me and his siblings-"I never forgot all the happy moments and that's what helped me survive all these years." Justin never hated us. He had to survive until legally he could walk away from his fathers home-and he did just that in January.

Melody knows that we are learning what really happened these last 10 years to him and she is afraid that she will be exposed. Well-I am ready to do just that if she does not stop texting hateful words and threats to my children like-"you are going to court and then jail." Melody is exhibiting behavior of a first class bully. If she does not stop posting defaming, slanderous things about me, John and now the kids I will continue to expose her hateful rants. A woman who has publicly posted for years how much she "loves her bonus kiddos" is now posting horrible things about them. What kind of mother figure does that? Heck-what kind of human being does that to kids?

I have for the most part tried to ignore Melody's harassment and bullying but in all honesty there were times I got caught up in "defending myself" and "firing back". As much as I try to ignore her, it becomes a different playing field when she is now going after my children. Melody being married to a high ranked-high profiled Army officer should impress her enough to act as a spouse of a US Military Colonel. However, Melody's behavior exposes her ignorance. She does not seem to understand that her behavior does affect Kevin and his role as an officer. When soldiers climb the ranks, the military world gets smaller and smaller which means the spot-light gets a lot bigger and brighter. Of course with Col Landers job as commander of The Corp of Engineers, he is also in a significant leadership position. It appears that Melody does not understand nor care that her public defamations and lies against Col Landers children and myself is a direct reflection of her character and her role as a spouse/officers wife. In lou of the fact that Col Landers is married to Melody-Her public display and behavior is a reflection of his personal life. 
With the current events of "J" leaving their home & care, FOR GOOD REASON, Melody and Col Landers emotional cruelty to these chilren comes to light once again...a reflection of the turmoil that exist in the relationship of Col & M. Morrison-Wilson-Landers.. 

Melody, as Col Landers wife, should be presenting herself with grace, dignity, professionalism, class and integrity. She is doing none of these as you will see in the screen shots below. I am not sure if Kevin wants to pursue the rank of General like my brother-in-law Jeff has , but if he does-he needs to have a long talk with his wife Melody. My sister Debbie, General Milhorns wife, is the epitome of not only an excellent wife, but a shining example of a outstanding officers wife. Debbie sets the bar very high. One that Melody needs to try to reach if she truly wants to support her husband Col Landers more than harass me, John and our children.
My brother-in-law's Frocking Ceremony to Brigade General

So below are the most recent screen shots of "postings" by Melody. My friends and family have brought these postings to my attention and the one question is always-"Why is she so hateful?"
Melody is infamous for posting hateful lies and words on social media sites and then deletes them.
I learned many years ago to screen shot and document everything because Melody claims I harass and cyber-bully her. She also states that I have made YouTube videos stating that I will kill Kyle(Melody's son). It's interesting that those videos were never produced in the courts. Why?-Because there are no videos. I have NEVER threatened anyone with bodily harm. Melody also insists that I send emails to friends, families and Col Landers work. I have not and I am sure that if emails have been sent-they can be tracked by IP addresses and I'm confident that it will be traced back to one person-Melody Morrison Wilson Landers. Melody also states on her Pinterest page called Cyberbullying- Melody's Pinterest Page Cyberbullying-that I have a criminal background. Once again, another significant lie or "Perjury". I have never committed of a crime and have a clean slate with law enforcement. I just got my Passport renewed because I have planned trips in the future to travel to the states to visit with my children (to include Kayla-Melody's daughter), my in-laws, Johns son and of course our families. So, after reading the horrible things and lies Melody writes and speaks, you will conclude that Melody is the bully and if she does not stop-we will be forced to continue to make this public and if she still doesn't stop with my asking-we will be willing to stop her legally. Something I'm sure Col Kevin P Landers Sr. does not want, need, nor has time for.

                                                                                                                                 

Here is the original picture of me taken off of my older daughters Facebook. This picture was taken while cooking Christmas dinner with my daughters last year. Myself, and my younger daughter "A" were cooking in my kitchen and Skyped with my older daughter in Montana so we could all feel like we were cooking together. Below this picture is the same cropped picture that Melody stole off of my daughters Facebook and wrote as you can see-
"always calling someone else fat. Why don't you look in the mirror lady. looks like you might have couple of chins going on there. May want to start running again...quit bullying the retards.
Let me stress there is no documentation that I have ever called anyone a retard because I never have. She also states that I called my 2 son's girlfriends fat. Once again-these two girls know that I have not. As far as "bothering" her. I have not had contact nor desire to in years-another lie. As far as the Geneva Convention?-it is obvious that Melody has no idea what this agreement serves.

In this screenshot above, Melody claims that I taught my son how to surf porn(on the far left) because I talked about porn all the time. Lets keep in mind that I had not been in my son's life for 10 years so this is a bold face lie. I have written in my blog that Col Landers had a porn addiction in our marriage(something the children remember) but according to my son "J"-he said he was forbidden to read my blog so he never did. So, if Melody lies about sick stuff like this (especially publicly embarrassing our son) one can only assume she lies about everything.

The next picture below (to the far left) Melody pins a picture that states I'm a whore and that I don't even go to church. Now she doesn't mention my name, but how many people do you know that are in a loving relationship with their EX-brother-in-law? What mature, reasonable woman-especially a Colonel's wife-thinks she is displaying about her character when she goes around calling women whores? That's a term abusers use to degrade their victims.

This picture below is also from Melody's Pinterest account. She changed her name to n, but if you copy the link, it goes directly to her page.
In this picture below she refers to John as "skanky" and me as a "cheater"(far left). To the far right-she calls me a "self-absorbed whore". Once again-a term that mature, respectable, Christian women do not use. Melody also calls me a worthless piece of shit(far left) WOW! Terminology she recently called Justin after he got home from boot-camp. Yet, she says that I call others horrible names?

In this screen-shot below, 
 Melody insults her step-children(my children) by stating that they are just skating by (Far-Left). Quite the contrary. After the children chose to leave their fathers home-they excelled at a very rapid rate.
Something that my youngest son(who just left his father) is doing as well. Then to the far right-Melody writes-"thought they(Col Landers kids) could "spunge" off us forever" Melody is referring to her precious bonus-children. This doesn't appear to be a loving, supportive step-mother. It appears to be an angry, immature, unstable woman. It is understandable why my children couldn't wait to leave their fathers home because if she post this on a social media sites-it confirms to me that when my children tell me-"Mom-she is really mean behind closed doors." I believe them.

In this picture below, Melody writes(far left)-
"4 U Erin. He doesn't want your skanky ass and you only wish you were me" 
Erin is short for Catherine and once again Melody calls me a skanky whore. A word not becoming of an officers wife let alone a woman of class. The "he" she is referring to is Kevin. I think it is obvious that Col Landers and I both decided that we did not want each other anymore.

In this last pic- in the center- Melody writes-
"haters gonna hate bitch please you got nothing to be hated on Nobody cares about a home-wrecking whore that is bi-polar white trash"
Melody claims to be an upstanding Christian woman but I have never heard a Christian woman talk, write or act the way Melody does. Her public words of loving her children to include her bonus appear to be only for show because as you can see in some of her above posts-she says mean things about the kids. Not only is she posting mean things, now she is texting mean things and after 10 years of this-I think Col Landers, myself and our 4 children would agree that it's time that Melody stops with all this slander, defamation and YES-stalking.

Let me stress as I have in prior blogs-I will stop posting in this blog if Melody and Col Landers stop the hate & lies. I am positive that Col Landers is unaware of some of the things that Melody post. I am once again bringing awareness so that Col Landers understands that what Melody tells him and what is reality are very different. 
Society calls that a lie.

I still do not understand why Melody won't stop. My friends and family have brought to my attention many times Melody's hateful rants. She has been reported by me, my family, my friends, the children and even people I don't know. She has gotten her hands slapped a few times by these public media sites, yet she lets time pass and then she starts up again. It is obvious that she has a lot of anger, rage, and instabilities inside of her.  
To this-I don't know why nor do I care but what I do care about is that she stops. There is nothing gained from Melody's hatred and if she truly supports and loves her husband- Col Landers-Melody will consider what is in his best interest. Something she may prove to be incapable of doing.