Col Kevin P Landers Melody Landers-Cyberbully Update

My ex-husbands wife Melody Landers has been harassing John and I for years now. I was made aware of lies she quietly told family, neighbors, friends and even lied to our children about me and John. These lies were brought to my attention as family members started to realize she was unstable and from my children who decided they wanted to live with me. My children-now young adults- have told me many accounts of Melody's verbal rages behind closed doors and all the lies she tried to tell them about me and John. The children never believed her which infuriates her even more.
I really could not do anything about what Melody said behind my back quietly, but I am ready to put a stop to her public defamation of me, John, and now the children that want nothing to do with her.

One of her first public attacks was on John's 20th Highschool class reunion website, Facebook page, and University website page in 2010. Melody had created a fake account posing as John and wrote some pretty degrading, horrific lies. John's friends from high-school and college knew it was not John and collectively reported Melody and she was removed immediately from those sites.
Another public attack was on my Mountain Home High school alumni page. She created a fake account with my maiden name(Cathie Seebauer) and once again wrote-posing as me-horrific lies. My friends knew it was not me and Melody was again removed. John and I have screen shots, written letters by friends and family that would be willing to testify and documented proof that it was indeed Melody that was the imposter.

Another public attack was a posting in 2012 as herself here in San Miguel on an online website called Civil San Miguel de Allende, MX. This website allows expats and locals to post questions about our surrounding city. One can find and post rental information, classifieds, and questions about San Miguel. Melody took it upon herself to create a post that degraded John, myself and our daughter "A" who still lives here. People that I had never met here in San Miguel contacted me and asked me if I knew who this Melody Landers was. I asked them-
"Oh no-what has she done now?" 
They told me that they had her post removed because they knew she was spreading horrible lies about me and our minor daughter at that time. I had no idea why Melody would even care to take the time to create a post on a site that doesn't pertain to her at all. I believe her intention was to try to ruin our outstanding reputation as good citizens in this city-yet it back fired on her because now San Miguel, which happens to be a close-knit community-is well aware of Melody Landers hateful actions and it is not tolerated nor accepted in this peaceful, loving community.

Another recent tactic Melody did was to post on John's son Nate's Georgia Southern website. Nate is a football coach at GA Southern and once again, Melody used her own name and posted horrible, slanderous lies about John. John and Nathan are very close and talk everyday. I assume Melody's intention was to try to make John appear in a bad light to Nathan's friends and colleagues. John along with his family and friends follow GA Southern website and John was getting bombarded with messages and phone calls asking John-"What the heck is wrong with this lady?"
Good question and one that will appear more clear as you continue to read below.

Melody has posed as our children. She had hidden keyloggers on the children's computers, phones, x-boxs ect. Keyloggers are good tools to have as long as you don't use them to hack into others social accounts. Melody has a pattern of doing this to ALL 4 of my children and her daughter. She gave her daughter a computer as a "college present" and without "Kay's" knowledge, she put a hidden keylogger on that computer. "Kay" did discover it when Melody also started posing as her daughter. Pretty weird lady. Melody also bought a computer for our daughter "A" in 2012 and "A" was smart enough to ask a computer tech to check to see if there was a hidden keylogger on her computer. There was. Why is Melody so insecure that she has to hack into other peoples personal lives or maybe she is what she claims I am-
A Stalker. 
The most current has been my youngest son. When "J" chose to leave his father and Melody to live with his sister, he did not realize that Melody was hacking into his Yahoo, Gmail, Hotmail, Facebook, Cell Phone and X-box because when "J" tried to log into his media sites after he left, all the passwords and security questions had been changed. All this time-Melody was posing as Justin on his Facebook-something I already knew but my "J" did not. I shared with "J" the copies of private messages from "his" Facebook these last 10 years. He said-"Mom-I never wrote those things."  "J" had to create a new Facebook because he could not get into his old one. The old Facebook still exists so if you receive messages from this Facebook link Justins Hacked Facebook  let me stress it is not Justin-It's Melody Landers. 

An update on my son's "J) old Facebook ubove. "J" reported to Facebook that his step-mother hacked into it so Facebook immediately removed it. "J" has also reported his hacked e-mail accounts and has informed all of his contacts from these accounts that if they receive any correspondents from the email accounts he listed-to delete them. "J" is currently creating new accounts and we are helping him secure these accounts so that Melody will have no access to his private life any longer.

So here is a severe warning to anyone that has communicated with "J" on his media sites up until the time he left his fathers home in Jan. 2015-Some communications may have been Melody and anything that you thought was private-was seen by Melody.  If anyone out there has visited Melody and Kevin's home and used their computers or cell phones-Melody has all your passwords and don't be naive to think she won't hack into your personal accounts. Melody's actions are an Invasion of Privacy or Intrusion of Solitude and Seclusion. This can constitute time and/or a hefty fine if pursued in court.

There are so many more examples but below are the most recent and it is time that I put a stop to Melody's hateful antics I do believe Melody is very angry and concerned that now 5 out of 6 children that were under her care chose to leave her and Kevin. The child Melody is most frustrated about is my youngest son "J." She truly thought that her lies to him about me would stick after 10 years but once "J" was free to talk to me he told me and his siblings-"I never forgot all the happy moments and that's what helped me survive all these years." Justin never hated us. He had to survive until legally he could walk away from his fathers home-and he did just that in January.

Melody knows that we are learning what really happened these last 10 years to him and she is afraid that she will be exposed. Well-I am ready to do just that if she does not stop texting hateful words and threats to my children like-"you are going to court and then jail." Melody is exhibiting behavior of a first class bully. If she does not stop posting defaming, slanderous things about me, John and now the kids I will continue to expose her hateful rants. A woman who has publicly posted for years how much she "loves her bonus kiddos" is now posting horrible things about them. What kind of mother figure does that? Heck-what kind of human being does that to kids?

Melody methodically threw away my childrens books, pictures, memorabilia, toys, holiday decorations, stuffed animals or anything that reminded my children of their past yet she has a shrine of her late son Kyle. Kyle Ray who was a 19yr old boy that had severe disablities that prevented him from speaking or use of physical independence. Kyle's well being relied totally on Melody and he died at a very young age. Melody worships her late son but where are the pictures of her living daughter she carried for 9 months inside her? Where is Kayla's shrine? Why is Melody's daughter Kayla not treasured? Is it because she was not handicapped or is it because Kayla could use her voice. Is it because Kayla was taken away from Melody at a young age and Melody resents her own daughter? It's not Kayla's fault that her mother was unstable.
A very clear picture is evident here. Melody had 6 children(my 4 and her daughter and son) at one point under her care, 5 of those 6 chose to leave her and Kevin's home. Kyle did not have a choice or a voice but the 5 other children did. Melody continues to hide behind her late son's legacy yet she fails to tell the truth about what really happened behind closed doors to my children and her daughter. The kids are now talking because they are not the young children that can be silenced, controlled or bullied into lies to protect their father and now his second wife-Melody Morrison Wilson Landers. These 5 kids are now legal adults and they are sick of Melody's slander, hatred, bullying and threats of-
"I'm going to take you to court and you are going to jail."
How many more times is Melody going to use that "scare tactic?"
It's getting quite old and it's not working anymore.

I have for the most part tried to ignore Melody's harassment and bullying but in all honesty there were times I got caught up in "defending myself" and "firing back". As much as I try to ignore her, it becomes a different playing field when she is now going after my children. Melody being married to a high ranked-high profiled Army officer should impress her enough to act as a spouse of a US Military Colonel. However, Melody's behavior exposes her ignorance. She does not seem to understand that her behavior does affect Kevin and his role as an officer. When soldiers climb the ranks, the military world gets smaller and smaller which means the spot-light gets a lot bigger and brighter. Of course with Col Landers job as commander of The Corp of Engineers, he is also in a significant leadership position. It appears that Melody does not understand nor care that her public defamations and lies against Col Landers children and myself is a direct reflection of her character and her role as a spouse/officers wife. In lou of the fact that Col Landers is married to Melody-Her public display and behavior is a reflection of his personal life. 
With the current events of "J" leaving their home & care, FOR GOOD REASON, Melody and Col Landers emotional cruelty to these chilren comes to light once again...a reflection of the turmoil that exist in the relationship of Col & M. Morrison-Wilson-Landers.. 

Melody, as Col Landers wife, should be presenting herself with grace, dignity, professionalism, class and integrity. She is doing none of these as you will see in the screen shots below. I am not sure if Kevin wants to pursue the rank of General like my brother-in-law Jeff has , but if he does-he needs to have a long talk with his wife Melody. My sister Debbie, General Milhorns wife, is the epitome of not only an excellent wife, but a shining example of a outstanding officers wife. Debbie sets the bar very high. One that Melody needs to try to reach if she truly wants to support her husband Col Landers more than harass me, John and our children.
My brother-in-law's Frocking Ceremony to Brigade General

So below are the most recent screen shots of "postings" by Melody. My friends and family have brought these postings to my attention and the one question is always-"Why is she so hateful?"
Melody is infamous for posting hateful lies and words on social media sites and then deletes them.
I learned many years ago to screen shot and document everything because Melody claims I harass and cyber-bully her. She also states that I have made YouTube videos stating that I will kill Kyle(Melody's son). It's interesting that those videos were never produced in the courts. Why?-Because there are no videos. I have NEVER threatened anyone with bodily harm. Melody also insists that I send emails to friends, families and Col Landers work. I have not and I am sure that if emails have been sent-they can be tracked by IP addresses and I'm confident that it will be traced back to one person-Melody Morrison Wilson Landers. Melody also states on her Pinterest page called Cyberbullying- Melody's Pinterest Page Cyberbullying-that I have a criminal background. Once again, another significant lie or "Perjury". I have never committed of a crime and have a clean slate with law enforcement. I just got my Passport renewed because I have planned trips in the future to travel to the states to visit with my children (to include Kayla-Melody's daughter), my in-laws, Johns son and of course our families. So, after reading the horrible things and lies Melody writes and speaks, you will conclude that Melody is the bully and if she does not stop-we will be forced to continue to make this public and if she still doesn't stop with my asking-we will be willing to stop her legally. Something I'm sure Col Kevin P Landers Sr. does not want, need, nor has time for.

                                                                                                                                 

Here is the original picture of me taken off of my older daughters Facebook. This picture was taken while cooking Christmas dinner with my daughters last year. Myself, and my younger daughter "A" were cooking in my kitchen and Skyped with my older daughter in Montana so we could all feel like we were cooking together. Below this picture is the same cropped picture that Melody stole off of my daughters Facebook and wrote as you can see-
"always calling someone else fat. Why don't you look in the mirror lady. looks like you might have couple of chins going on there. May want to start running again...quit bullying the retards.
Let me stress there is no documentation that I have ever called anyone a retard because I never have. She also states that I called my 2 son's girlfriends fat. Once again-these two girls know that I have not. As far as "bothering" her. I have not had contact nor desire to in years-another lie. As far as the Geneva Convention?-it is obvious that Melody has no idea what this agreement serves.

In this screenshot above, Melody claims that I taught my son how to surf porn(on the far left) because I talked about porn all the time. Lets keep in mind that I had not been in my son's life for 10 years so this is a bold face lie. I have written in my blog that Col Landers had a porn addiction in our marriage(something the children remember) but according to my son "J"-he said he was forbidden to read my blog so he never did. So, if Melody lies about sick stuff like this (especially publicly embarrassing our son) one can only assume she lies about everything.

The next picture below (to the far left) Melody pins a picture that states I'm a whore and that I don't even go to church. Now she doesn't mention my name, but how many people do you know that are in a loving relationship with their EX-brother-in-law? What mature, reasonable woman-especially a Colonel's wife-thinks she is displaying about her character when she goes around calling women whores? That's a term abusers use to degrade their victims.

This picture below is also from Melody's Pinterest account. She changed her name to n, but if you copy the link, it goes directly to her page.
In this picture below she refers to John as "skanky" and me as a "cheater"(far left). To the far right-she calls me a "self-absorbed whore". Once again-a term that mature, respectable, Christian women do not use. Melody also calls me a worthless piece of shit(far left) WOW! Terminology she recently called Justin after he got home from boot-camp. Yet, she says that I call others horrible names?

In this screen-shot below, 
 Melody insults her step-children(my children) by stating that they are just skating by (Far-Left). Quite the contrary. After the children chose to leave their fathers home-they excelled at a very rapid rate.
Something that my youngest son(who just left his father) is doing as well. Then to the far right-Melody writes-"thought they(Col Landers kids) could "spunge" off us forever" Melody is referring to her precious bonus-children. This doesn't appear to be a loving, supportive step-mother. It appears to be an angry, immature, unstable woman. It is understandable why my children couldn't wait to leave their fathers home because if she post this on a social media sites-it confirms to me that when my children tell me-"Mom-she is really mean behind closed doors." I believe them.

In this picture below, Melody writes(far left)-
"4 U Erin. He doesn't want your skanky ass and you only wish you were me" 
Erin is short for Catherine and once again Melody calls me a skanky whore. A word not becoming of an officers wife let alone a woman of class. The "he" she is referring to is Kevin. I think it is obvious that Col Landers and I both decided that we did not want each other anymore.

In this last pic- in the center- Melody writes-
"haters gonna hate bitch please you got nothing to be hated on Nobody cares about a home-wrecking whore that is bi-polar white trash"
Melody claims to be an upstanding Christian woman but I have never heard a Christian woman talk, write or act the way Melody does. Her public words of loving her children to include her bonus appear to be only for show because as you can see in some of her above posts-she says mean things about the kids. Not only is she posting mean things, now she is texting mean things and after 10 years of this-I think Col Landers, myself and our 4 children would agree that it's time that Melody stops with all this slander, defamation and YES-stalking.

Let me stress as I have in prior blogs-I will stop posting in this blog if Melody and Col Landers stop the hate & lies. I am positive that Col Landers is unaware of some of the things that Melody post. I am once again bringing awareness so that Col Landers understands that what Melody tells him and what is reality are very different. 
Society calls that a lie.

I still do not understand why Melody won't stop. My friends and family have brought to my attention many times Melody's hateful rants. She has been reported by me, my family, my friends, the children and even people I don't know. She has gotten her hands slapped a few times by these public media sites, yet she lets time pass and then she starts up again. It is obvious that she has a lot of anger, rage, and instabilities inside of her.  
To this-I don't know why nor do I care but what I do care about is that she stops. There is nothing gained from Melody's hatred and if she truly supports and loves her husband- Col Landers-Melody will consider what is in his best interest. Something she may prove to be incapable of doing.

Col Kevin P Landers Melody Landers-Cyberbully

My ex-husbands wife Melody Landers has been harassing John and I for years now. I was made aware of lies she quietly told family, neighbors, friends and even lied to our children about me and John. These lies were brought to my attention as family members started to realize she was unstable and from my children who decided they wanted to live with me. My children-now young adults- have told me many accounts of Melody's verbal rages behind closed doors and all the lies she tried to tell them about me and John. The children never believed her which infuriates her even more.
I really could not do anything about what Melody said behind my back quietly, but I am ready to put a stop to her public defamation of me, John, and now the children that want nothing to do with her.

One of her first public attacks was on John's 20th Highschool class reunion website, Facebook page, and University website page in 2010. Melody had created a fake account posing as John and wrote some pretty degrading, horrific lies. John's friends from high-school and college knew it was not John and collectively reported Melody and she was removed immediately from those sites.
Another public attack was on my Mountain Home High school alumni page. She created a fake account with my maiden name(Cathie Seebauer) and once again wrote-posing as me-horrific lies. My friends knew it was not me and Melody was again removed. John and I have screen shots, written letters by friends and family that would be willing to testify and documented proof that it was indeed Melody that was the imposter.

Another public attack was a posting in 2012 as herself here in San Miguel on an online website called Civil San Miguel de Allende, MX. This website allows expats and locals to post questions about our surrounding city. One can find and post rental information, classifieds, and questions about San Miguel. Melody took it upon herself to create a post that degraded John, myself and our daughter "A" who still lives here. People that I had never met here in San Miguel contacted me and asked me if I knew who this Melody Landers was. I asked them-
"Oh no-what has she done now?" 
They told me that they had her post removed because they knew she was spreading horrible lies about me and our minor daughter at that time. I had no idea why Melody would even care to take the time to create a post on a site that doesn't pertain to her at all. I believe her intention was to try to ruin our outstanding reputation as good citizens in this city-yet it back fired on her because now San Miguel, which happens to be a close-knit community-is well aware of Melody Landers hateful actions and it is not tolerated nor accepted in this peaceful, loving community.

Another recent tactic Melody did was to post on John's son Nate's Georgia Southern website. Nate is a football coach at GA Southern and once again, Melody used her own name and posted horrible, slanderous lies about John. John and Nathan are very close and talk everyday. I assume Melody's intention was to try to make John appear in a bad light to Nathan's friends and colleagues. John along with his family and friends follow GA Southern website and John was getting bombarded with messages and phone calls asking John-"What the heck is wrong with this lady?"
Good question and one that will appear more clear as you continue to read below.

Melody has posed as our children. She had hidden keyloggers on the children's computers, phones, x-boxs ect. Keyloggers are good tools to have as long as you don't use them to hack into others social accounts. Melody has a pattern of doing this to ALL 4 of my children and her daughter. She gave her daughter a computer as a "college present" and without "Kay's" knowledge, she put a hidden keylogger on that computer. "Kay" did discover it when Melody also started posing as her daughter. Pretty weird lady. Melody also bought a computer for our daughter "A" in 2012 and "A" was smart enough to ask a computer tech to check to see if there was a hidden keylogger on her computer. There was. Why is Melody so insecure that she has to hack into other peoples personal lives or maybe she is what she claims I am-
A Stalker. 
The most current has been my youngest son. When "J" chose to leave his father and Melody to live with his sister, he did not realize that Melody was hacking into his Yahoo, Gmail, Hotmail, Facebook, Cell Phone and X-box because when "J" tried to log into his media sites after he left, all the passwords and security questions had been changed. All this time-Melody was posing as Justin on his Facebook-something I already knew but my "J" did not. I shared with "J" the copies of private messages from "his" Facebook these last 10 years. He said-"Mom-I never wrote those things."  "J" had to create a new Facebook because he could not get into his old one. The old Facebook still exists so if you receive messages from this Facebook link Justins Hacked Facebook  let me stress it is not Justin-It's Melody Landers. 

An update on my son's "J) old Facebook ubove. "J" reported to Facebook that his step-mother hacked into it so Facebook immediately removed it. "J" has also reported his hacked e-mail accounts and has informed all of his contacts from these accounts that if they receive any correspondents from the email accounts he listed-to delete them. "J" is currently creating new accounts and we are helping him secure these accounts so that Melody will have no access to his private life any longer.

So here is a severe warning to anyone that has communicated with "J" on his media sites up until the time he left his fathers home in Jan. 2015-Some communications may have been Melody and anything that you thought was private-was seen by Melody.  If anyone out there has visited Melody and Kevin's home and used their computers or cell phones-Melody has all your passwords and don't be naive to think she won't hack into your personal accounts. Melody's actions are an Invasion of Privacy or Intrusion of Solitude and Seclusion. This can constitute time and/or a hefty fine if pursued in court.

There are so many more examples but below are the most recent and it is time that I put a stop to Melody's hateful antics I do believe Melody is very angry and concerned that now 5 out of 6 children that were under her care chose to leave her and Kevin. The child Melody is most frustrated about is my youngest son "J." She truly thought that her lies to him about me would stick after 10 years but once "J" was free to talk to me he told me and his siblings-"I never forgot all the happy moments and that's what helped me survive all these years." Justin never hated us. He had to survive until legally he could walk away from his fathers home-and he did just that in January.

Melody knows that we are learning what really happened these last 10 years to him and she is afraid that she will be exposed. Well-I am ready to do just that if she does not stop texting hateful words and threats to my children like-"you are going to court and then jail." Melody is exhibiting behavior of a first class bully. If she does not stop posting defaming, slanderous things about me, John and now the kids I will continue to expose her hateful rants. A woman who has publicly posted for years how much she "loves her bonus kiddos" is now posting horrible things about them. What kind of mother figure does that? Heck-what kind of human being does that to kids?

I have for the most part tried to ignore Melody's harassment and bullying but in all honesty there were times I got caught up in "defending myself" and "firing back". As much as I try to ignore her, it becomes a different playing field when she is now going after my children. Melody being married to a high ranked-high profiled Army officer should impress her enough to act as a spouse of a US Military Colonel. However, Melody's behavior exposes her ignorance. She does not seem to understand that her behavior does affect Kevin and his role as an officer. When soldiers climb the ranks, the military world gets smaller and smaller which means the spot-light gets a lot bigger and brighter. Of course with Col Landers job as commander of The Corp of Engineers, he is also in a significant leadership position. It appears that Melody does not understand nor care that her public defamations and lies against Col Landers children and myself is a direct reflection of her character and her role as a spouse/officers wife. In lou of the fact that Col Landers is married to Melody-Her public display and behavior is a reflection of his personal life. 
With the current events of "J" leaving their home & care, FOR GOOD REASON, Melody and Col Landers emotional cruelty to these chilren comes to light once again...a reflection of the turmoil that exist in the relationship of Col & M. Morrison-Wilson-Landers.. 

Melody, as Col Landers wife, should be presenting herself with grace, dignity, professionalism, class and integrity. She is doing none of these as you will see in the screen shots below. I am not sure if Kevin wants to pursue the rank of General like my brother-in-law Jeff has , but if he does-he needs to have a long talk with his wife Melody. My sister Debbie, General Milhorns wife, is the epitome of not only an excellent wife, but a shining example of a outstanding officers wife. Debbie sets the bar very high. One that Melody needs to try to reach if she truly wants to support her husband Col Landers more than harass me, John and our children.
My brother-in-law's Frocking Ceremony to Brigade General

So below are the most recent screen shots of "postings" by Melody. My friends and family have brought these postings to my attention and the one question is always-"Why is she so hateful?"
Melody is infamous for posting hateful lies and words on social media sites and then deletes them.
I learned many years ago to screen shot and document everything because Melody claims I harass and cyber-bully her. She also states that I have made YouTube videos stating that I will kill Kyle(Melody's son). It's interesting that those videos were never produced in the courts. Why?-Because there are no videos. I have NEVER threatened anyone with bodily harm. Melody also insists that I send emails to friends, families and Col Landers work. I have not and I am sure that if emails have been sent-they can be tracked by IP addresses and I'm confident that it will be traced back to one person-Melody Morrison Wilson Landers. Melody also states on her Pinterest page called Cyberbullying- Melody's Pinterest Page Cyberbullying-that I have a criminal background. Once again, another significant lie or "Perjury". I have never committed of a crime and have a clean slate with law enforcement. I just got my Passport renewed because I have planned trips in the future to travel to the states to visit with my children (to include Kayla-Melody's daughter), my in-laws, Johns son and of course our families. So, after reading the horrible things and lies Melody writes and speaks, you will conclude that Melody is the bully and if she does not stop-we will be forced to continue to make this public and if she still doesn't stop with my asking-we will be willing to stop her legally. Something I'm sure Col Kevin P Landers Sr. does not want, need, nor has time for.

                                                                                                                                 

Here is the original picture of me taken off of my older daughters Facebook. This picture was taken while cooking Christmas dinner with my daughters last year. Myself, and my younger daughter "A" were cooking in my kitchen and Skyped with my older daughter in Montana so we could all feel like we were cooking together. Below this picture is the same cropped picture that Melody stole off of my daughters Facebook and wrote as you can see-
"always calling someone else fat. Why don't you look in the mirror lady. looks like you might have couple of chins going on there. May want to start running again...quit bullying the retards.
Let me stress there is no documentation that I have ever called anyone a retard because I never have. She also states that I called my 2 son's girlfriends fat. Once again-these two girls know that I have not. As far as "bothering" her. I have not had contact nor desire to in years-another lie. As far as the Geneva Convention?-it is obvious that Melody has no idea what this agreement serves.

In this screenshot above, Melody claims that I taught my son how to surf porn(on the far left) because I talked about porn all the time. Lets keep in mind that I had not been in my son's life for 10 years so this is a bold face lie. I have written in my blog that Col Landers had a porn addiction in our marriage(something the children remember) but according to my son "J"-he said he was forbidden to read my blog so he never did. So, if Melody lies about sick stuff like this (especially publicly embarrassing our son) one can only assume she lies about everything.

The next picture below (to the far left) Melody pins a picture that states I'm a whore and that I don't even go to church. Now she doesn't mention my name, but how many people do you know that are in a loving relationship with their EX-brother-in-law? What mature, reasonable woman-especially a Colonel's wife-thinks she is displaying about her character when she goes around calling women whores? That's a term abusers use to degrade their victims.

This picture below is also from Melody's Pinterest account. She changed her name to n, but if you copy the link, it goes directly to her page.
In this picture below she refers to John as "skanky" and me as a "cheater"(far left). To the far right-she calls me a "self-absorbed whore". Once again-a term that mature, respectable, Christian women do not use. Melody also calls me a worthless piece of shit(far left) WOW! Terminology she recently called Justin after he got home from boot-camp. Yet, she says that I call others horrible names?

In this screen-shot below, 
 Melody insults her step-children(my children) by stating that they are just skating by (Far-Left). Quite the contrary. After the children chose to leave their fathers home-they excelled at a very rapid rate.
Something that my youngest son(who just left his father) is doing as well. Then to the far right-Melody writes-"thought they(Col Landers kids) could "spunge" off us forever" Melody is referring to her precious bonus-children. This doesn't appear to be a loving, supportive step-mother. It appears to be an angry, immature, unstable woman. It is understandable why my children couldn't wait to leave their fathers home because if she post this on a social media sites-it confirms to me that when my children tell me-"Mom-she is really mean behind closed doors." I believe them.

In this picture below, Melody writes(far left)-
"4 U Erin. He doesn't want your skanky ass and you only wish you were me" 
Erin is short for Catherine and once again Melody calls me a skanky whore. A word not becoming of an officers wife let alone a woman of class. The "he" she is referring to is Kevin. I think it is obvious that Col Landers and I both decided that we did not want each other anymore.

In this last pic- in the center- Melody writes-
"haters gonna hate bitch please you got nothing to be hated on Nobody cares about a home-wrecking whore that is bi-polar white trash"
Melody claims to be an upstanding Christian woman but I have never heard a Christian woman talk, write or act the way Melody does. Her public words of loving her children to include her bonus appear to be only for show because as you can see in some of her above posts-she says mean things about the kids. Not only is she posting mean things, now she is texting mean things and after 10 years of this-I think Col Landers, myself and our 4 children would agree that it's time that Melody stops with all this slander, defamation and YES-stalking.

Let me stress as I have in prior blogs-I will stop posting in this blog if Melody and Col Landers stop the hate & lies. I am positive that Col Landers is unaware of some of the things that Melody post. I am once again bringing awareness so that Col Landers understands that what Melody tells him and what is reality are very different. 
Society calls that a lie.

I still do not understand why Melody won't stop. My friends and family have brought to my attention many times Melody's hateful rants. She has been reported by me, my family, my friends, the children and even people I don't know. She has gotten her hands slapped a few times by these public media sites, yet she lets time pass and then she starts up again. It is obvious that she has a lot of anger, rage, and instabilities inside of her.  
To this-I don't know why nor do I care but what I do care about is that she stops. There is nothing gained from Melody's hatred and if she truly supports and loves her husband- Col Landers-Melody will consider what is in his best interest. Something she may prove to be incapable of doing.

PERJURY: Continued practice of Col. Kevin P Landers Sr

I want to go back to the time that I referenced about losing temporary custody of my children. In the blog entry dated February 20, 2012 I wrote that I lost my home and physical custody of my kids because of lies Kevin told to the police and court (see Feb. 20 Blog).  I left the courtroom and walked methodically outside. The sun was shining and I looked up. I stood there for a moment, just taking in the sun on my face. Then, I came back to reality and I started to walk towards my truck. As I walked, Kevin and Melody walked towards me. I just looked at them in silence. I could not understand the hate and deception as they looked at me and smiled. I had my arms wrapped around my waist in protection and I remember I looked past Melody and into Kevin’s eyes. All I saw was black …an evil smile came over him and I knew that my life would never be the same. He had won the battle in the NC courtroom over our children and he did not care that he had lied and had our daughter M lie and that he had used her for his gain. He did not care that I did not want anything from him. He did not care that I gave him everything from my soul.  He did not care about our children. All he cared about was that I suffered. That was his power in our 18 year marriage. Kevin’s control was that I better know my place with him or he would make me miserable. Because I was leaving my abuser, he promised to make my life a living hell.  He initially accomplished his pledge to separate me from our 4 kids, yet one-by-one they continue to seek me out and return to me. These reunions have discredited Kevin and his rage continues as Kevin and his wife Melody continue to make recent false statements to the court…YES, Lt. Col. Kevin Paul Landers, Sr. continues to provide false statements to the court. He is a liar. Melody is known as a liar to many persons in NC, TN, GA, Mexico and CO (search my YOU TUBE videos at CatCall2010). Both try to make certain that I and the children suffer because NONE of us want anything to do with Kevin or his wife.

Now, let us continue from the February 20, 2012 entry.

I had until midnight Sunday to return Justin and Amanda to North Carolina.  My NC attorney requested that I return to Cumberland County immediately and that I should leave Justin and Amanda in Georgia with my friend Steve and his family until we knew the outcome of the emergency hearing. Amanda and Justin remained in GA along with their older brother Kevin, Jr.  I returned to NC the next day, a Thursday, for a court hearing that morning.  Per my February 20^th Blog entry, my readers know that I was ordered to return J and A to their father.

Dropping A and J off with their father at our Hamersley Road home in Fayetteville, NC was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. I kept the children calm the entire 7 hour drive from GA to NC. I stopped in a gas station in Hope Mill, NC and approached a police officer. I told him what I had to do and that I was afraid what my abuser may do to me. I had no idea what state of mind Kevin was in and he had already gotten away with numerous lies. I asked the officer to accompany me because I wanted to protect myself. This was 11:30pm on a Sunday night. The officer agreed to escort me to the home.  As we pulled up another police car met us at the address.  I saw Kevin walk out of the front door. He had a very smug look on his face, a look of “winning”. I got out of the truck and held Amanda and Justin’s hands. I had a hard time letting go of their sweet little hands because I knew that it was going to be a long time before I saw them again. I had a strong intuition that my battle for these innocent children was going to be heart wrenching. I knew Kevin wanted to play a hateful game. My older daughter M (12 years at this time) had wanted to stay with her dad during our separation/divorce, so I had not seen her for about 2 weeks. When M saw me, she came running out of the house and almost knocked me over as she embraced me.  I grabbed her and she kept saying to me, “I am so sorry! I am so sorry! Please forgive me! Dad told me to lie to the judge!” I did not know what she meant, but I remember that I held her and whispered in her ear, “No matter what happens, you will always be my daughter and no one can take that away. I love you.”

Melody, Kevin’s live-in girlfriend at the time came out of the door, and called M back over to her. I remember everything started to happen slowly. Every look on Kevin’s face. Every grin he had. Every movement was so methodical. I held on to Justin and Amanda’s hands tighter. Then the police officer brought me back out of my trance. He said, “You need to let the children go.” I remember that I just looked at him and said, “I can’t”. He said, “You have to.” I looked at Kevin and he laughed. He just looked at me and laughed and then I became angry. I went back to the truck and grabbed a box with a 4 kitten litter that M's pet cat had given birth to. Four of them. How ironic. FOUR baby kittens. Kevin looked at me and said, “I’m not taking care of those”.  I said, “Kevin they need their mother and they’re M's kittens.” He looked at me and said, “That’s not my problem.” The police officer told me to keep the kittens and get into the truck. Looking back, I knew that the officer did not want to get involved with a domestic dispute. I put the box of kittens back in the truck and then I looked at A and J and told them I loved them. They grabbed on to me and did not want to leave me. I remember I kneeled down to hold them. I refused to let Kevin see me cry so I had no tears; I had nothing but anger towards the hateful father of my children. I hated him. I still hate him. I told Amanda and Justin to go to their father. As I got back into the truck, my son Kevin was sitting in the passenger’s seat. He was old enough to choose who he wanted to live with and he chose me. He did not speak a word but I felt his anger. Anger towards his father. Anger towards me, his mother. I think my son also knew that our entire lives were going to change because his parents could not work out this insanity. When I backed out of the driveway, I looked back at Kevin, Sr. He was waving and smiling at me. That evil smile of the hateful manipulator. A look I had witnessed a million times. He looked like the devil and Melody was standing right behind him with her hands on his shoulders. J, M and A stood like statues with the paleness of sickness on their skin. All 3 were crying.

By this Sunday evening, please recall that my attorney Heather Nichols had been reprimanded by the judge and dismissed as counsel (see prior Blog). Now I was fighting a different battle and in need of another retainer to divorce Kevin and expose his violent abusive behavior. My brother-in-law John Baker had agreed to loan me money for new counsel. However, John had given a two-strike felon an opportunity to work with him in October 2004. David Reeves was the two strike felon of Roswell, GA. A decision John came to regret. David had a criminal record involving Domestic Violence from Gwinnett County, GA and then a second strike when he was convicted of beating a minor child in either Fulton, DeKalb County. In September 2005, David was charged with “Road Rage” and incarcerated. Upon his release, David intercepted a total of $40,000 from TN and KY Rockford Recruiting, LLC clients and cashed them at Bank of America as David Reeves Doing Business As Rockford Recruiting. David Reeves stole all of the monies verses the 50% of all collections John had provided him since 2004. So, “When It Rains It Pours”.  With no money and facing his own financial woes, John could no longer help me. David’s theft prevented John from paying his Sept. & Oct. child support. David never has denied theft of the money. This convicted abuser of children and women, offered to “help” me if I would agree to move in with him as a “partner”…I refused. Upon my refusal, David filed false “breaking & entering” charges against me. They were tossed out per his reputation with local law enforcement. The police told me, “for your own safety and the safety of your son, avoid Mr. Reeves.”

I had no funds to obtain counsel. I will blog more about my eventual employment in New Jersey. But for now, please know that my parents had made it clear that they were not an option. I had been out of their home for 18+ years and never had requested any help. When I reached out to my father and mother, they made it clear that I needed to return to my abuser and “hang in there.”

My family struggled with the things that Kevin lied about. He knew how to manipulate them. My family had hardly been around Kevin and I in our 18 year marriage. We averaged seeing them about once a year and the times we did spend with them were short. My family chose to stand by Kevin. We saw them once a year and I protected Kevin. I often had thought, “If I tell my dad, he will kill Kevin”. Therefore, I feared telling my dad because of the harm he would do to Kevin. When I did tell my dad, he told me that Kevin was only trying to protect himself because of my drinking? Kevin had contacted my family after writing his abuse admittance letter and told them he “may have gotten a bit physical” with me, but it was only because “she is an alcoholic…she is a drug addicted…she is neglectful to our kids…”

Whether I was all of these things or none of these things, my mother and father should have inquired. Instead, the only time since September 2005 that my parents called, was on March 6, 2006 when my mom called me and told me to leave “Kevin and Melody alone. You chose to abandon your children and you need to move on with your life”. Even after my mother was made aware by my oldest children that I had spoken the truth and Kevin was the one lying, she never called me again. My mother died in August 2008. My father has never acknowledged his wrong in standing by Kevin. He still does not call me nor my children.

My parents viewed “problems” in anyone’s life as being alcohol related. So, when I told them of my being terribly beaten by Kevin, they asked me “is it alcohol” “is it because Kevin has a drinking problem” and I said “no”.  Kevin and I rarely drank. Yet, when my parents asked Kevin about drinking, he took the opportunity to say “alcohol is the problem.” An answer they wanted to hear.  Keep in mind, I come from a family of recovered alcoholics so bad behavior in my family is automatically assumed that it is alcohol related.  Having said that, let’s say I am and was all the things Kevin said I was. How can a parent be passive about a husband’s abuses to their daughter? Breaking their daughter’s nose. Breaking her ribs. Smashing their daughter’s face against a wall. A man, the husband, their son-in-law throwing their own daughter down a staircase. Hold a running power drill to her face.  Tie her up for hours on his weekdays off work while the kids were at school. Lock her out of her home on a freezing cold night. A son-in-law that sells their daughter to the highest bidder on Swinger ads. A man that displays their daughter’s private nude pictures on the World Wide Web. My parents chose to stand by a man who chokes his wife until she passes out. My parents wanted me to stand by Kevin Landers – I don’t think so. When I refused to return to my abuser, my own mother and father turned their back on me. One thing I can say about the Lander’s, lie, cheat, beat or steal…THE LANDERS STICK TOGETHER.

Upon leaving my 3 youngest kids with Lt. Col. Kevin Landers of Hicksville High School, New York, I was driving down the highway and I lost my “composure”. I started crying. A soulful cry that I can only explain like this:

I felt like my heart was being ripped out of my chest by the bare hands of Kevin Landers while I was still alive. A pain that I had never felt before. The punches and blows were one type of pain. This type of pain was something completely different. I knew I was not going to die this evening, but I did know that every strand of my motherhood had just been ripped away from me by a man who promised he would make my life a living hell. The most extreme infernos of hell began the day I had to say goodbye to my babies because my husband cared more about winning than letting go. Kevin cared more about his reputation than saving his children. Kevin cared more about his military status than protecting our 4 kids from a war that he started. Kevin “the Solider” or Kevin “the Demon”? You decide after I continue to tell the rest of my story in continued entries.

“Many human beings need no supernatural mentoring to commit acts of savagery; some people are devils in their own right, their telltale horns having grown inward to facilitate their disguise” ~Dean Koontz

REST…REGROUP…RETURN